big problem if you want to be a pastor who tends the flock.
Big problem that I think I have solved.
I now invite folks to invite me over. Or invite them to stop by. Or invite them to let me know where/when we can meet for coffee.
I would love to come into the church and visit with you in your office.
Thanks for the offer, but I am not interested in a personal visit at this time.
Just making that decision, to put the ball in my members court, was liberating.